HAMPTONS GUIDE 2022
Jennifer Mejia
A beachfront home in Southampton
Can you believe it’s just a few days away from the unofficial start of summer? I’m looking forward to one that’s relaxed, and I hope to share time with people I’ve missed over the past few years. Since the Christmas season, I’ve been to the Hamptons only twice, so I’m ready for a Hamptons summer. A lot of people know of the Hamptons from movies and television shows. And while there are wild and lavish parties to attend, that’s generally not my speed. So I try to publish a Hamptons Guide that most people can reference to enjoy their time. If you’re visiting for the first or second time, you may be wondering, is there a best of the Hamptons list? What spots should I be sure to hit to have the best summer in The Hamptons? Let’s first begin with a Hamptons 101 primer for anyone interested.
If you’re not from the New York area, you might be asking yourself, where are the Hamptons? The Hamptons are on the South Fork of the eastern end of Long Island, stretching from Westhampton out to Montauk and also north to Shelter Island. Summertime in the Hamptons is wonderful! And believe it or not, the Fall is one of the best times to visit because the weather is still beautiful but the seasonal crowds have departed! The beauty of the Hamptons is everything you read about. The beaches and landscape are stunning. Many of the homes and gardens are simply breathtaking and what dreams are made of. And while many of the rich and famous do, in fact, summer there, it is possible for anyone to enjoy the Hamptons. If you remember only one thing from this post it's that you should never attempt to hit all of the hot spots during one summer visit. Hamptons traffic from Memorial Day to Labor Day is absolutely horrible. After Southampton, Route 27, aka Montauk Highway, becomes one lane each way. And although it's only about 13 miles from Main Street in Southampton to Main Street in East Hampton, if you travel at the wrong time, that trip could easily cost you an hour.
A morning walk on Little Plains Beach in Southampton
For that reason, a lot of my recommended top Hamptons spots are in or close to Southampton, but I’m doing my best to explore more of the entire East End. Fortunately for us, the main reason we chose to purchase a home in Southampton is because we love the town and beaches, so we don't feel like we're missing out by not traveling much farther east. There are SO many more wonderful places than what I’ve listed here. Since you simply can’t do it all during one visit, it’s my attempt to narrow it down for you.
HAMPTONS BEACHES & HAMPTONS BEACH PARKING
Cooper's Beach
The one slightly inconvenient thing about Hamptons beach parking if you're a day-tripper or even a weekender is that many (but not all) of the beaches require a resident permit. These have to be permanently affixed to the window of your vehicle. You obtain one only by owning a home or presenting a lease to the Town Hall or Village Hall, showing you're officially "living there" for an extended period of time.
But fear not, you can purchase a daily beach permit at some of the beaches. This link is extremely helpful for Southampton Town beach parking. A permit is required for all beaches on weekends beginning May 28 and EVERY day from June 25 through Labor Day. Before we were residents of Southampton, we always bought a daily pass for Cooper's Beach. That fee is $50 upon entering the lot. This gives you in and out privileges for the day. Cooper's Beach is beautiful, and it has clean bathrooms, showers, a beach "shack" (a nice one) with provisions (even lobster rolls and fish tacos), and the ability to rent chairs and umbrellas. Lifeguards are also present. To my knowledge, this is the only Southampton Village beach offering an option for non-residents.
In East Hampton Village beach monthly permits are available on a first come, first served basis. Click here to register and apply. At the time of this posting, daily parking in East Hampton is not available until further notice.
Scott Cameron/Flying Point Beach
If you have a parking pass, Flying Point beach, which connects to Scott Cameron Beach, is a wonderful place for children. You can access the ocean and the calmer bay from these beaches. When the bay water rises too high, the town of Southampton creates something called “The Cut.” They literally dig up the sand between the two bodies of water to allow water to flow from the bay to the ocean so the houses along the bay don’t flood. The water is about knee-high. It’s warmer and calm, so it’s less stressful than the ocean. Plus there are crabs in the bay, making for hours of entertainment for your kids (and you) if you bring along a crab net. Just make sure you release the crabs unharmed and do NOT take them home without a permit. The bay constables are watching, and they will fine you!
The creation of “The Cut”
HAMPTONS RESTAURANTS
There are several new Hamptons restaurants for 2022. A few of them are from well-known chefs, and they’ve decided to expand with a new branch or open a completely new concept. I’m happy to share those that I’m looking forward to trying, but know that I can’t yet vouch for them at the time of this posting. (I’ll do my best to update as the season goes on.) I’ve added so many restaurants over the years, so for this Hamptons Restaurant Guide 2022, I’ll try to group my favorite Hamptons restaurants by town.
SOUTHAMPTON
NEW IN 2022. One of my former favorite restaurants in Southampton was Red Bar. Sadly, it closed a few years ago, but this summer, Enchanté is opening in its old location. Heath Freeman, the guy behind Si Si in East Hampton, is creating a French bistro in the same spot at 210 Hampton Road. Check google for its opening in June, as there is no website at the time of this posting.
The rustic charm of Tutto in Southampton
Close to our home in Southampton Village is Tutto il Giorgno. It’s Italian food and a welcoming ambiance all wrapped into one. There is a beautiful and charming garden, which is my preference for seating. But don’t dismay if outdoor isn’t available because the inside is warm and cozy and has a wonderful energy to it. Favorite items on the menu are Grilled Octopus, Branzino, and I love the simplicity of the Spaghetti (with fresh tomato sauce) and Linguini with Clams (I always ask for extra garlic in both!) The restaurant takes limited advanced reservations on OpenTable, and each day at 11 am they open up their phone lines for same day reservations. Call as close to 11 am as you can, and keep pressing redial when you get a busy signal. They’re actually pretty good at trying to meet requests.
If you happen to be in Sag Harbor, there is a Tutto Il Giorgno there, as well.
AND NEW FOR 2022 is Tutto Caffe in East Hampton.
If you’re in the mood for a burger, head to Union Burger Bar for the best in town. They have veggie and turkey burgers, too, if you’re not feeling carnivorous. I LOVE their onion rings. And kids love the decadent milkshakes for dessert. Okay, maybe adults do, too! Need a spot for Happy Hour? Have it al fresco Monday through Friday from 3-6 pm here. Beers are $5, Wine is $7, and Mixed Drinks are $9.
Right next door to Union Burger is Union Sushi & Steak. They serve exactly what they promise in their name.
Shinnecock Lobster Factory for spectacular lobster rolls
If you think you have to go all the way to Maine (or Amagansett) for a fabulous lobster roll, think again. The Shinnecock Lobster Factory has you covered. Eat “in” at outdoor picnic tables or take it home. Either way, you’ll be transported to Maine with their quality rolls.
NEW for 2022 and so exciting for me is Lobster Roll Southampton (yes, the famous one in Amagansett) along Montauk Highway between Southampton and Water Mill.
Situated on Main Street with a back garden and sidewalk seating is Dopo Argento. I truly enjoyed my meal and cocktails here (great spicy margarita). If you are looking for great food and people watching, this is the place.
Bamboo’s Bar
Bamboo is a fun spot for sushi and more. It’s in the spot of the former Little Red, which I loved and miss so much. The decor is beautiful inside and so festive in the outdoor covered patio. It’s amazing even for people who aren’t sushi lovers because there are so many truly delicious cooked dishes. If you’re interested, my favorite dishes are Spicy Tuna on Crispy Rice Cakes, Wok Seared Mongolian Beef, and Bang Bang Chicken. They also have killer cocktails, and they use one of my two favorite tequilas, Espolòn, in many of them.
Outdoor dining at Pellegrino’s
For a more casual but seriously delicious Italian dinner, head to Pellegrino’s Pizza Bar & Restaurant, where they serve amazing pizza and so much more. This inviting spot is about 10 minutes from Southampton Village but worth the drive for affordable fare that will exceed your taste expectations. The pizzas are divine, and my favorite pastas are Scampi Wild Shrimp and Amatriciana. Also try the Eggplant Parmigiana Rustica—I’m a meat eater and LOVE this dish!
People outside of the Hamptons know Tate’s Bake Shop primarily for their cookies. Well, if you’re a Tate’s lover, you’ll be in heaven if you visit Southampton. But truth be told, it’s not the cookies that make me stop the car. I’m more of a soft and moist cookie kind of gal. But I LOVE their Three Berry Crumble pies. And I suggest you pick up one because they aren’t sold outside of the Hamptons.
Our best impression of The Southampton Fudge Company mascot
For a cold treat on a hot summer night (or day) in Southampton, visit The Southampton Fudge Company for ice cream (and fudge and other candy) or Sant Ambroeus for gelato. The Village of Southampton has plenty of benches on which you can sit to enjoy your sweet treats.
WATER MILL
Calissa at Night
Calissa in Water Mill is a Greek restaurant that also doubles as quite a hot night spot. You can’t go wrong with seating because the outdoor space is beautiful and summertime festive, while the indoor space is sexy and hip. There is live music entertainment on Thursday, and a DJ every Friday and Saturday night, and that really amps up the energy. This also makes it tougher to secure a reservation, but if you do, you’ll be happy to dine and spend some time having more cocktails after dinner. Check their calendar for a schedule of events.
I have yet to try Kissaki in Watermill, but it comes highly recommended so it is on my list for this summer. It’s a traditional Omakase experience. O in East Hampton adds grilled hot foods, small plates, and craft cocktails to the delicious sushi menu offered.
BRIDGEHAMPTON
Elaia indoor beauty
Elaia Estiatorio is one of my favorite restaurants in the Hamptons. Serving authentic Greek cuisine just south of Montauk Highway, this Bridgehampton spot is a must. The beautiful, U-shaped bar is the hub of the restaurant, and this joint takes its ambiance and decor as seriously as its food. Every evening feels like an occasion to celebrate with owner Sofia Crokos, who is also a special events planner, decorating the space with fresh flowers, fresh bread, desserts, and accessories that will transport you directly to the Greek Isles. If it’s your birthday, prepare to celebrate in a big way with Greek music and lots of hoopla from the entire restaurant! On the menu, you must try the Fried Zucchini Chips (you’ll never want to eat potato chips or French fries again!) And they typically offer Saganaki, which is kefalograviera cheese that is coated with sesame seeds and pan-fried. My favorite preparation is with tomato marmalade, but their offering changes and it’s all delicious! Read more about Elaia here.
The bar at Topping Rose’s restaurant
Topping Rose House in Bridgehampton is a Jean-Georges restaurant and has wonderful food and a happening bar and restaurant scene. During our first meal, we dined next to Christie Brinkley, and it's also a favorite of Ina and Jeffrey. One New Year’s Eve we dined with our children before heading to a friend’s house to ring in the New Year, and it was a surprisingly good deal for our kids, as they ate for “free” with our prix fixe meals. I’m not sure if they’ll ever repeat that deal, but we were very happy about it.
Candy Kitchen maintains an old school vibe
Candy Kitchen in Bridgehampton is a great casual diner, but we like to go for ice cream and milkshakes. Open daily for breakfast, lunch, and dinner...or ice cream and shakes to go!
SAG HARBOR
Just a peek at the Sag Pizza menu
If you’re looking for the Hamptons with a little touch of New England, head to Sag Harbor for a meal, shopping, and even the beach. Sag Pizza serves up some of the best pizza around in a festive atmosphere that is kid-friendly while still being a place I’d be happy to go on a fun date. While they do offer the expected toppings on pizza, they have options with truffle paste (you’ll die and go to heaven!), kale, and even a pizza with clams and guanciale—yes, all on one pizza! Outdoor seating is available.
Le Bilboquet first opened in New York City, but as with many favorite places of Manhattanites, they don’t want to live without it for the summer. So this Sag Harbor location has become a favorite, especially with its waterfront location and weekend DJ.
And as I mentioend earlier, there is a Tutto Il Giorgno here, as well.
Buddhaberry
For dessert in Sag Harbor, head to Buddhaberry for the best frozen yogurt with a million and one topping options. But frozen yogurt isn’t all they do—they have crepes, açaí bowls, waffles, and shakes and smoothies. It’s a very popular spot, but it seems to be the place to be, and it lives up to the hype with so much variety in froyo flavors and other options to satisfy your sweet tooth.
Grindstone Coffee & Donuts
For brioche donuts and the best honey lavender latte with oat milk (my favorites), head to Grindstone Coffee & Donuts. If you want my advice, order the simpler donuts. I’m personally not a huge fan of the stuffed, overly topped varieties. But I LOVE Cinnamon Sugar and Classic Glazed.
SHELTER ISLAND
I have only been to Shelter Island once. That’s because I used to think it was difficult to get there. But it’s SO incredibly easy. The car ferries run continuously to and from North Haven during summer months, and the ride is short, steady, and fun. We dined at SALT, which is right on the water, and we truly enjoyed the food ambiance, even during a storm. Now that we know how easy it is to get to Shelter Island, we’re going to be exploring a lot more.
HAMPTON BAYS
Enjoying the lobster roll outside at Canal Cafe (messy fingers, lip, and all!)
Canal Cafe in Hampton Bays is a meal with a view. The food is actually very good, but you really come to literally sit on the water--many of the tables are on a deck that is an extension of the boat docks. They don't take reservations, but you can have a drink at the bar or one of a few outdoor picnic tables while you wait. I love their lobster roll, and we’ve also been very happy with many of their daily specials
Also in Hampton Bays is a spot called Cowfish. I share this with the disclaimer that I’ve actually never stepped foot through their door. But so many people rave about it, so I’m going to finally get there this year (I said that last year, but this time I mean it)! I just haven’t gone because it’s a longer drive from our house. The Crispy Brussel Sprouts and Skillet Cornbread are calling my name. And like Canal Cafe, you can’t beat the views.
EAST HAMPTON
The view at Si Si (photo via Si Si Instagram)
I really don’t get to East Hampton a lot for dinner. Not because there is a shortage of fabulous restaurants. Just because of the traffic, and I like to walk or take a quick Uber to dinner. But restaurants you can count on are Nick & Toni’s for superb Italian, and Si Si for the fabulous food and an even more spectacular sunset along Three Mile Harbor.
AMAGANSETT
We seldom drive farther east than Bridgehampton, but there are a few places that are worth the drive. Take a drive to East Hampton, do a little shopping, and then head to The Lobster Roll, also known as LUNCH, in Amangansett. It’s open every day from lunch until 9:30 pm. It’s such a festive beachside “shack” decorated in red, white, and blue with umbrellas, picnic tables, and a pebbled outdoor space. And the service is warm and friendly. Do I even need to tell you what to order? Well, perhaps. You can actually get a lobster salad roll made with mayo, but my favorite is the hot lobster roll. The lobster comes served in melted butter with the roll on the side so you can stuff as much as you want into the roll or just enjoy the sweet taste of lobster. One last tip: Don’t be dismayed by the crowd of people you see waiting to be fed. The line actually moves rather quickly, and they serve up tasty beverages (some with alcohol if you need help chilling during the wait)—I was quite pleased with my piña colada during our last visit!
New to Amagansett last year and worth the drive for me, is Il Buco Al Mare. I used to order from Il Buco on Bond Street when my hair stylist had her salon there. There is nothing on the menu that isn’t amazing. And their spot out east is no different. Their garden for outdoor dining is lovely.
Photo via Clam Bar Instagram
No visit to The Hamptons is complete without a visit to the Clam Bar, the quintessential clam shack, with so much more deliciousness beyond clams.
MONTAUK
The Crow’s Nest is a sure win in Montauk for its food, stunning grounds, and a cute little bar down by the water so you can have a drink while you wait for your table. It’s also part of a small boutique hotel, in which I’ve never stayed, but judging from the website, it’s super cute and boho chic!
New in 2022 in Montauk is Roberta’s Montauk. This popular Brooklyn-based pizza joint will now offer dine-in and takeout all the way at the end.
If you’re planning to spend a day on the beach in Montauk, make sure to make a pitstop at Herb’s Market on Main Street to pick up provisions for a picnic lunch. They’re known for their fried chicken, even by people who typically don’t eat fried chicken. But there is so much more, including prime meats, if you’re planning to cook a meal at home that evening.
WHERE TO STAY IN THE HAMPTONS
Wouldn’t it be nice to rest your head here? No worries, I’ve listed realistic options. Just dreaming.
Because I have a house in the Hamptons, I’ve never stayed at a hotel or B&B. So I’m going to list a few that I know of by reputation, with the disclaimer that I don’t have any personal experience sleeping there. That said, a realtor can also help you rent a place if you’re staying at least two weeks. That’s the minimum for them to write a lease. The owner pays the commission, so there is no downside to using someone who knows the area and properties. There are three realtors that I know personally, and I appreciate their work ethic and integrity. So if you’re looking to rent (or buy), give them a call. In alphabetical order, they are: Susan Hovdesven with Douglas Elliman (she is actually my neighbor), Myles Reilly with Saunders (he helped us purchase our home with an insane seller), and Dana Trotter with Sotheby’s (who actually got us amazing offers on our home but then we decided not to sell due to the pandemic). They are all so wonderful and have high standards and amazing taste.
Lake Agawam in Southampton
To rent for a few nights, check out: The Bridgehampton Inn in Bridgehampton, Topping Rose House in Bridgehampton, 1770 House in East Hampton, Mill House Inn in East Hampton, The Baker House in East Hampton, and Gurney’s in Montauk.
Groovy Suzie on the beach in Southampton last summer
For an oceanfront and truly unique experience, reach out to LI Glampers. It was founded by a family who has traveled all over the country in a camper. They have a fleet of themed campers, and they’ll deliver to approved camping spots across Long Island. One of those spots is ON the beach in Southampton. Yes, like on the sand. You must make your own campsite reservations, and that is separate from your glamper reservation. The website explains it, but I’m sure they’d be happy to help you understand it all if you give them a ring. The company can also connect you with partners of theirs for surfing and stand up paddle board lessons.
HAMPTONS EVENING ENTERTAINMENT
Sunset while waiting for the Drum Circle performance to begin
Drum Circle festivities at Sagg Main Beach in Sagaponack begin every Monday during the summer around 6 pm. This appears to be an independently organized group and event, not run by the town of Southampton. The drum circle musicians don't appear to be on a strict schedule, beginning somewhere around 7 pm. Bring your beach blanket and chairs, wine (AND cups to conceal it), and any food you like for an evening picnic. The kids will enjoy the company of other kids who are running in the sand, dipping their toes in the water, jumping from the lifeguard chair, flying kites, and dancing to the beat of the drum circle. To park in the lot next to the beach, you'll need a sticker on your ride. Otherwise be prepared for a parking ticket.
Sunset picnic at Wolffer Winestand
You might think you need to ditch the kids to go wine tasting. Not in The Hamptons. Make your Friday or Saturday evening a treat for all at Wolffer Winestand. From 5 pm to sunset, it's a "picnic" like no other. Bring your blankets and beach chairs and find a spot on the grounds right alongside the vines. The Winestand sells wines by the bottle, cheese platters, and other lite bites that you can enjoy with friends while your kids run, frolic, dance to the live music, and roll down the small hills into the vineyard.
What’s a summer vacation without at least one round of miniature golf? Hamptons Mini Golf is open daily from 9 am to 11 pm, but we prefer to go in the evening when it’s cooler. A driving range is also on site. (During colder months, they open their ice rink.)
On Monday evenings from late July through August, Cooper’s Beach in Southampton has drive-in movies. Check the beach for movies and show times. Most Sundays at 5 pm, there is live music. Bring your beach chairs and gather round.
DAY TRIP (WINE and/or OYSTERS)
If you’re a wine lover, the best place for wine tasting (IMO) is the North Fork because there are so many wineries close to one another. But the North Fork has so much more to offer besides just wine. Click here to read my blog post on One Day on the North Fork.
In The Hamptons, a few wineries to note are Wolffer, Channing Daughters, Duck Walk, and just one year old is Bridgehampton Breeze Winery.
DAYTIME EXCURSIONS
A few summers ago, we went kayaking as a family for the first time. And it couldn’t have been easier thanks to what was at the time, Main Beach Surf & Sport. Although the shop has closed, Main Beach Xpeditions is still around with the former owner of the shop. They deliver kayaks, stand up paddle boards, and canoes all over the East End, making a day of fun easy with zero hassle. We had our kayaks dropped on Georgica Pond and kayaked to Georgica Beach and back. We had lunch on the sand at the beach. This was actually a treat because it’s typically a private beach for residents of the neighborhood, but not when you arrive by kayak! When we were finished, we left our kayaks where we found them, and they came to pick them up. They also run a surf camp if that’s of interest.
Speaking of surf lessons, a friend of mine was thrilled when her daughter (who was 5 at the time of her first lesson) and husband became real surfers thanks to the professionals at Hamptons Surf Co. Best of all, you can choose to book in advance or call the day before. The owner, Kurt Rist, seems super flexible. My eldest son learned last summer and showed off again during our recent trip to Costa Rica.
In between wakesurfing, kneeboarding, and tubing with The Riders Hamptons
Last summer we rented a boat and crew (captain and water sports expert) from The Riders Hamptons. We had such a wonderful time tubing, wake surfing, and kneeboarding. The company offers a few different types of boats that accommodate various numbers of passengers, and you can rent for two hours or longer. Boats leave out of Sag Harbor. They also offer camps for small groups. You can send your kids out for a few hours of fun while you enjoy shopping, beach time, or a quiet, adult lunch.
If you’re in the mood for a hike and a quiet beach, visit the Elizabeth Morton Nature Preserve. Hike down to the beach while observing and listening to wild birds. You might even spot a wild turkey. And if you take a little bird seed, stand quietly still, and hold the birdseed in the palm of your hand, a bird may just come take it from you. Hike to the beach and use the free telescopes to see for miles. Or just act like a kid and skip rocks. Parking is $5 on the honor system.
For a splashing good time during summer months, take the family to Splish Splash in Riverhead. The lines can be long, but for a small fortune, they offer a speed pass to minimize your wait times.
Berry (and other fruits and vegetables) picking is a favorite pastime for my kids and me in the Hamptons. There are so many places throughout the East End. We’ve been to Hank’s (which at the time of this posting says it is temporarily closed) and Seven Ponds Orchards and have enjoyed both. Just make sure you call ahead or check their websites to confirm what they’re currently picking.
Not really a day excursion, but I can’t figure out where to place this. Agawam Park in Southampton is a wonderful playground, often with some shade, and my kids (and husband and I) have the best time there. And if you’re not into running around, just enjoy the beautiful sunsets.
Another playground that is wonderful for kids is at Mashashimuet Park in Sag Harbor. Slides, tire swings, merry-go-rounds, a spider rope maze, and so much more. And if you tire of that, there are nearby tennis courts and soccer and baseball fields. Sag Harbor town is a short walk away.
HAMPTONS FARM STANDS & FOOD MARKETS
We are definitely not the Hamptons people who go out every night. I'm a RHONY, but I'm a real housewife of NYC, so I'm used to cooking. But truth be told, I love entertaining and welcoming people into my home. I enjoy visiting local farm stands and markets, and cutting fresh herbs from the herb pots that my kids and I plant every summer, to create something special for our guests. And it's sort of nice to come in from the pool or beach, have a margarita, and hang out with family or friends without getting all gussied up every night. So if you're the chef, here are a few of my favorite spots to procure goods for cooking at home.
I love to visit North Sea Farms for fresh chickens when I'm making beer can chicken. In addition, they have all the fresh produce you could want, including organic corn that's wonderful on the cob or in my simple but delicious summer corn salad. My favorite thing about this local farm stand is that they have a sign every day detailing what is organic and what is conventional, and this is terrific if you're like me and are finicky about what you feed your family.
The Green Thumb's Fresh Herbs
The Green Thumb in Water Mill is a short drive from Southampton and a reliable place for quality produce. They also sell fresh herbs in pots so you can plant your own for the season. Most weekends, they sell pies prepared by local bakers. And outside of the farm stand is a wooden train that your kids can play on while you're shopping, and it's right next to a small chicken coop that also houses a beautiful peacock. And you may get lucky and run into Katie Lee or Brooke Shields (who is so lovely!)
Round Swamp Farm has three farm stand locations, one in Bridgehampton, another in East Hampton, and another farther out in Montauk. It has a reputation for two reasons. They have wonderful baked goods, fish, meats, prepared foods and produce. This place is not a bargain, so be sure to pay attention and look for the prices on the bottoms of their prepared foods. Thanks to a friend of ours who appears to be a grill-master, we visited Round Swamp to purchase burgers from Pat LaFrieda, a meat purveyor that used to pack meat in our old 'hood, The Meatpacking District. The burgers are amazing.
Amber Waves in Amagansett is a place I always stop if I’m further east. I consider it a treat.
If fish is on your menu, be sure to visit the Clamman Seafood Market in Southampton. They have every kind of fish you could imagine, caught daily, plus more live lobsters than the waters of Maine (well, not really, but you get the point). And if you're not in the mood for cooking, they have a fantastic and reasonably priced takeout menu with everything from fried clams and oysters to grilled fish.
Peconic Prime Meats is right next door to the Clamman. Any cut of meat you could want, along with house-made sausages, are available for the best cookout of the summer. Prices are reasonable, too.
For the best bagels, head to Goldberg’s Famous Bagels. We go to the one on County Road 39 before getting to Southampton Village. I personally love their flagels. Additional locations are in Sag Harbor, Wainscott, and East Hampton.
If you need beer and wine, there are two favorite spots for us. Right in the village of Southampton near the Stop ‘n Shop is Lamplighter Wines & Liquors. It’s family run, and you always get an honest recommendation from the owner. He’ll give you a good wine at a reasonable price versus talking you into buying the most expensive. If you’re driving in and want to load up before unpacking, Zabi’s Wines & Spirits and Peconic Beverage are neighbors and share the same parking lot on County Road 39. Get your…wine and spirits…at Zabi’s and your beer at Peconic. One stop shopping made easy.
If you've never made it inside its location in New York City, you may want to try Levain Bakery in Wainscott to get a thick slice of their chocolate chip banana bread or one of their killer giant cookies. They have lots of other flatbreads, breads, and pastries, but I just named my favorites.
Ye Olde Bake Shoppe in Southampton is the best kept secret in The Hamptons. Stop by and get one of their to-die-for cinnamon rolls. Really. Don't leave without buying one. You will thank me later.
I’m gonna go out on a limb and say you will never be disappointed with anything from Carissa’s Bakery. Breads, cakes, pies, pastries…and more. I’ve listed it in this section because most people carry out, but the Pantigo Road location has outdoor dining in their garden on a first come, first served basis.
A friend of mine is a private chef for a family, and he frequently shops at Red Horse Market in East Hampton. So if you’re out that way and in need of meat, fish, produce, or ready-made salads, this is the spot.
And finally, my friend Ben from Maison Benjamin is a private chef and would love to prepare a beautiful meal for you in the Hamptons. His company will also do just about anything else you want to make your life easier.
HAMPTONS SPECIAL EVENTS
Hamptons Polo is a Hamptons event that everyone should do at least once. There are two dates for Hamptons Polo 2022: July 23 and July 30. Dress up, see it all and be seen. There’s food, music, drinks, vendors sharing clothing and cocktails, and…I almost forgot…a polo match. Get your tickets here.
Taking in the Scenery at the The Hamptons Classic
The Hamptons Classic is a horse show that happens every August in Brideghampton. This year it’s August 28 through September 4. The kids will love watching the jumping competitions, as will you. And because it's in The Hamptons, it's sponsored by wonderful brands who bring lots of extra stuff for the family to enjoy. There is typically a kids tent with loads of arts and crafts activities like cookie decorating from Citarella, an area with farm animals, pony rides, and even playground equipment. For the adults, there are food trucks, cars and boats on display from luxury companies, and a shopping tent and mobile shopping trucks.
A pony ride at the Hamptons Classic
The Southampton July 4th Parade is the quintessential small town holiday parade. Residents bring their beach chairs to line Main Street and watch old cars, marching bands, and the like stroll by.
You’ll also want to see fireworks around the 4th of July holiday. Spectacular views of the show can be seen along Meadow Road in Southampton/Shinnecock over Shinnecock Bay. The police are kind enough to allow people to just park on the side of the road. There are several other spots throughout The Hamptons with fireworks, so check local listings for dates and times.
There are a few carnivals in the Hamptons that my kids love. The big one is the North Sea Fire Department’s Carnival during the week of July 4th. This is the Mac Daddy of summer carnivals because they have a great fireworks show a few nights at around 10 pm. I also like that it’s run in large part by volunteers for the fire department, so it has more of that hometown carnival feel than some of the others.
The Southampton Carnival seems to come and go a few times throughout the summer. It’s a small town carnival with a huge potato sack slide, a small roller coaster, games, candy apples, and the whole shebang. It’s a great carnival for smaller children. The carnival sets up shop on County Road 39 as you're driving into Southampton.
There’s also a carnival in Bridghampton on Montauk Highway near the Carvel store. It’s probably the closest to North Sea’s in terms of size and types of rides. All carnival dates change every summer, so just check local updates when visiting.
HAMPTONS SHOPPING
Aerin in Southampton Village
The towns of Southampton, East Hampton, and Sag Harbor are loaded with both high-end and local shops.
Southampton favorites of mine are The Westside, Katherine Tess, Aerin, Tenet, Eres, The Great, Homenature, and Sferra. Just outside of Southampton Village is Mecox Gardens for every interior design and garden lover.
In Sag Harbor, in addition to a few favorites listed below, make sure you visit Hudson & Grace for beautiful dishes and other home accessories to entertain in style, Love Shack Fancy, Faherty, and new this year are Dragon Hemp Apothecary, which sells CBD Hemp extracts combined with Chinese herbs to create therapeutic medicines, and Andie for swimwear.
In East Hampton, there is a shop for every woman who is looking to add to her wardrobe. It’s heaven. A few of my favorites are Reformation for the best fitting dresses and East Hampton Gardens for everything home and garden. I believe EH Gardens is also a favorite of Ina Garten.
In Bridgehampton, a favorite spot for all things cooking and entertaining is Loaves & Fishes Cookshop on Main Street/Montauk Highway.
Kite Flying on Cooper's Beach (Kite from Kites of the Harbor)
Kites of the Harbor in Sag Harbor is a must if you're in The Hamptons and have kids (or just like kite flying). The beaches usually have a nice breeze, perfect for this pastime. The best thing about the shop is that the employees know which kites are easiest to fly and those that are more difficult so that your kids won't be disappointed on even their first attempt. The shop also carries fun costumes, toys, and gadgets and is located on the town's quaint Main Street.
Topiaire Candy Shop in Southampton Village is reminiscent of the old penny candy shops that I frequented as a child to purchase Mary Janes and Squirrel Nut Zippers. It's a charming spot and will delight kids and adults alike with the candies from our younger days, as well as giant gummy sharks that my kids seem to enjoy.
A beautiful tabletop at Goop
For as long as I can remember now, there has been a Goop in Sag Harbor, so stop by to see your favorite GP recommendations in person. It started as a pop-up, but thankfully it seems to be a permanent fixture now. There are so many wonderful shops in The Hamptons that I can't list them all. But many of them, like MONC XIII, are in Sag Harbor, so if you can only shop one day, make it the day you visit this beautiful town that is reminiscent more of Nantucket than the rest of The Hamptons.
The view inside MONC XIII
Serena & Lily only has a handful of brick and mortar stores throughout the country, so be sure to visit their Beach Market location in Wainscott. They have lots of fun events with cocktails and book signings throughout the summer, so be sure to check their Instagram and website if you'll be in the area.
Treasures inside Marie-Christine Design Shop
If you drive a bit farther than Serena & Lily, you’ll get to Red Horse Plaza. There are a few great shops if you’re looking for art and interior inspiration. One of my favorites is Marie-Christine Design Shop. She is one of my favorite interior designers, and I nearly passed out when I learned she had a storefront with some special things she has found and is reselling.
ON A RAINY DAY
On a rainy day, there is still lots to do in The Hamptons. Long Island is home to wonderful wineries in The Hamptons and the North Fork that I mention in this post. The Parrish Art Museum is a wonderful place to visit and get some culture. Just don't go on a Tuesday because they are closed.
If you have young kids, they'll enjoy The Children's Museum of the East End in Bridgehampton. Or take a short drive to Riverhead to Safari Adventure, an indoor play area with bouncy slides, arcade games, and a multi-level human crawling maze, complete with slides, that even adults can enjoy. You can also hit the Long Island Aquarium to feed stingrays, see sharks, be entertained by a live sea lion show, or walk around with a butterfly on your head in the butterfly conservatory. This aquarium is truly worth a visit. The Rogers Memorial Library in Southampton also has free classes (registration required, usually in advance) for children. But if you can’t get into a class, there’s always good old-fashioned book selection and reading.
The Montauk Lighthouse is a fun destination because it’s literally right on the end of Long Island. Kids will enjoy walking up the spiral staircase to the top. Just be patient because it’s a narrow staircase and can get a little cozy with people going both directions.
Views from Montauk
HAMPTONS OFF SEASON
If you can’t get to the Hamptons this summer, don’t worry, as the Fall is one of the best times to visit the because the crowds are gone, rental homes and hotels have lower rates, but the weather is still wonderful. And you don’t even need a beach pass, so you can park for free, without fear of a ticket, at some of the most beautiful beaches on the East Coast. Most shops and restaurants are still open. The one destination I’ll add for the Fall is Hank’s Pumpkintown. This is a child’s dream spot for the day. And they have everything you could want to celebrate this season on one plot of land. Pumpkins, of course. Apple cider donuts, apple picking, a hayride of the best kind (without hay to make you itch and sneeze), corn mazes, slides coming out of giant farm equipment, pedal dune buggies, a giant bouncy pillow, face painting, apple blasting (a MUST!), a corn train ride around one of the pumpkin patches, mums and gourds for sale, and even more, but I’m exhausted listing it all. Trust me, you and your kids will have a fabulous time, and they’ll sleep well. Pumpkintown is only open from the weekend after Labor Day until Halloween, giving you one more reason to visit after Summer’s end.
This list is always work in progress. My hope is that it will make your trip to The Hamptons stress-free and more enjoyable. Always feel free to message me here or on my social media pages with questions. Hoping you experience the beauty of the Hamptons, love your time there, and eat lots of good grub.
xoxo,
Jennifer
